Monday, 29 November 2010

给我自己

感觉说得很有道理,希望每个女生都能幸福的生活着~~


1.要坚信一个真理:这个世界上只有爸妈永远对你好。
你24岁了,你记不记得自己青春反叛的时候怎么气过他们。
你24岁了,父母都快年过半百了,你要对他们好的时间已经不多了。不要等失去的时候才哭着说当时年少不懂事,没有好好孝敬父母。


2.是的,你已经达到法定婚龄了,可是你并不用着急着嫁人。
或许你正在热恋,你们山盟海誓说要一辈子。
可是你才24岁,你不知道一辈子到底有多长。日子是过出来的,不是想出来的。
结婚,不是两个人的事情,是两个家庭的事情。老一辈讲的门当户对,并不是毫无道理的封建思想。
结婚,你应该抱着一辈子只有一次的信念,所以结婚,慢慢来。


3.轰轰烈烈的爱情,留给一字头的年龄。
你24岁了。别再做那些会被别人当做笑话的傻事。
什么夜不归宿,当街吵架,以死相逼,一哭二闹三上吊。
那些疯狂的事情,那些年少轻狂,经历过就够了。
24岁了,学会淡定从容。
女孩子,从来就应该骄傲地活着,而不是卑微地恋爱。


4.不要因为寂寞而恋爱,不要因为跟风而恋爱。
24岁了,学会对自己的人生负责。


5.自己喜欢的东西,不要奢望别人买。
24岁,不管你以前是否玩过暧昧,你已经过了暧昧的年龄。
女人要独立,经济独立是基础。


6.如果一个男人对你说他配不上你,相信他。
一个自己说配不上你的男人,一辈子也不会配得上你!
珍惜与能力无关,与钱无关!


7.明确自己的目标,为此奋斗。
24岁,你要出国?找工作?还是继续学习?
24岁,你离踏入社会已不远,你是否已做好准备?


8.答应自己的事情就要做到,该对自己狠的时候就要狠,切忌优柔寡断、藕断丝连。
对自己心软,成不了大事。
24岁,要学会面对现实,不能再整日沉浸于白日梦中。


9.女孩子,要学会对自己好一点,别把所有的都投资在所谓的"潜力股"身上。
无论什么时候,看清楚你自己手中留着什么底牌。


10.做人学会圆滑。
24岁,别人不会再把你当小孩子,你的错误已不会再有人包容。
对不喜欢的人和事面带笑容,是我们必须学会的恶心。


11.感谢所有伤害过你的人。
然后在24岁生日的那天,对他们挥挥手,说声,我不再恨你们了。
你长大了,你要正视伤害。


12.别玩什么非主流。你不是90后。
还不如学着化化妆,不是烟熏妆,是大方得体的淡妆。
一个大企业的面试官曾对我说过,一个化淡妆的女生,企业会优先考虑。
为什么?因为你连自己的容貌都不着急,你会着急什么?
世界上没有丑女人,只有懒女人。


13.减肥,说说就好。
到你真的减到跟竹竿似的时候,你会发现低血压低血糖头晕目眩一系列疾病同时伴随你。
说不好还有胃癌。
24岁,你要知道,你以后的路还有很长,健康的身体是你走下去的保证。


14.对挑拨离间的人,不要揭发他。
等他演完一出出好戏,拼命演,拼命圆。
然后告诉他,其实你什么都知道。
接着,笑笑,离开。


15.谁对你好,你就对谁好。
人际交往永远是礼尚往来的、双向法则,没有人有义务对你好。
24岁,擦亮眼睛,谁对你好,记得对他好。


16.转身,要比眼泪快。
这是必须。
24岁了,你必须学会承担难过,你必须知道难过它会过去。
要经常对自己说,我也可以很勇敢。不要,千万不要,轻易在别人面前掉眼泪。
别人看多了你的眼泪,就会觉得你的眼泪如此廉价。


17.你以前或许干过许多荒唐的事。 可是请你不要觉得那有多见不得人。请你不要觉得那是负担。 24岁,这是你生命中一个新的开始。

18.随时给自己准备一个微笑
告诉自己
我可以!
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Sunday, 28 November 2010

I am me.

Things have finally come to and end. It was a very unexpected night and i know i did something that proud of myself, everyone does too.
Did not know the reason why when people comes to be the selfish one. even Hitler has his own reason too. to be honest, i did not blame. i did not blame because i'm very sure someone has his own reason, just the thing is, have to bear it when we know we did something wrong, and you still go for what you want.
A lil bit hatred, i admit. because i thought that human has the wise mind behind to support us from doing decision. however, stuck in no where will make this hatred and upset gain more and more.
surprisingly i was so calm and rational, sometimes couldn't understand myself, am i crazy or what. how can a person have to know the reason why even she feels like crying.
too calm that i can sort things out.
i am who i am, and this is how i am.

Friday, 26 November 2010

I'm pure.

A sneak peak on photo shooting picture.

Wednesday, 24 November 2010

Of quote



"He's not your prince charming if he doesn't make sure you know that you're his princess"

Saturday, 20 November 2010

Try to...

to know how i feel,
after weeks and months of different stage. 
i always thought i did my best, 
and yes i did my best 
because of love and the egoistic me, 
to be understand. 


piles and piles of feelings, 
coming towards me. 
big hit of gun shot, and i have to survive from this wound. 
trust me, its hurt, 
but i would rather it come in a shot. 
because i know, 
i don't deserve the cruel bit by bit. 


i know,
sometimes people have to be cruel to be kind.
i never blame, and i never do. 


things have floated on the surface.
i know what is happening, 
i know how hurt it is. 
i'm falling and standing back up on my own ground, 
i'm perfectly aware of the ramifications of my actions. 


you have your great life, 
and i have mine. 
and the honest degrees,
is really proves on time. 
no matter how much you say, 
i won't ever give away. 


because,
sometimes it's better in this way. 


happy and strong, 
be loved for who you are. 


by me. 

Friday, 19 November 2010

眼不见为净

眼不见为净,
真的很厉害。
不是我不够定力,
也不是我不够成熟。
但看不见,
真的比想象中舒服很多很多。
要说我无聊也罢,
说我放不开也罢,
说我自己骗自己也好,
觉的好受,
别的也不管了。

Wednesday, 17 November 2010

不能这样下去

以为一切都是特别的,以为看过了观察过了,做出来的决定会不一样。 其实现在才觉得有些事情真的直要靠感觉就会有答案。会觉得心碎,是因为放了太多的期望,和太享受每一个过程,让我忘了自己。有时候会在想,真的是要忘了自己,还是要时时刻刻提新着自己不要忘形。 
一直被拖着的感觉真的很不好受,一直觉得有回头的期望也很不好受。 
我哭了,哭的眼泪都干了。真的想有一天起床的我,完全忘了所有的事。
i hate, i hate the feeling of knowing i have to let go. 
i hate, i hate the feeling i thought i'm still waiting for something. 
i hate, i hate the feeling everyone has effected by me. 
i hate, when i thought i tried so hard and nothing has changes. 
我不要在这样下去了, 这样的我,一点都不象。
但愿,写完了这,哭完了的泪,真的可以让我象以前一样的振作。 
我, 真的不想要再这样下去了。 

To myself, thank you sophia.

The Middle - Jimmy eat the world


Hey, don't write yourself off yet
It's only in your head you feel left out or looked down on.
Just try your best, try everything you can.
And don't you worry what they tell themselves when you're away.


It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything (everything) will be just fine, everything (everything) will be alright (alright).


Hey, you know they're all the same.
You know you're doing better on your own, so don't buy in.
Live right now.
Yeah, just be yourself.
It doesn't matter if it's good enough for someone else.


It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything (everything) will be just fine, everything (everything) will be alright (alright).
It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything (everything) will be just fine, everything (everything) will be alright (alright).


Hey, don't write yourself off yet.
It's only in your head you feel left out or looked down on.
Just do your best, do everything you can.
And don't you worry what the bitter hearts are gonna say.


It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything (everything) will be just fine, everything (everything) will be alright (alright).
It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything (everything) will be just fine, everything (everything) will be alright (alright).






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Tulip Farm..

There are some reason i was holding back not to post the Tulip Farm photos, guess know why.
But after some days, i thought that a blog of mine should be completely have the results and records of my improvement, and yet i cannot have the feeling of selfish, although it does hurt a little, not much, just a little.

That was like a month plus ago when i found out this tulip attraction, and fyi my favourite flower is tulip.
So i get him to bring me to this place.
A lil bit warm but very nice weather for an outing.

Had filter some of the pictures.





I don't feel good at all, but what else can i do?

Saturday, 13 November 2010

Drizzling mood...

Drizzling the whole day had make me do some thoughts, i was forcing myself not to think so much but i can't. and i'm back to home alone, doing nothing again, after 2 months of different happiness.
Someone had just slapped and hit me so hard, deep into my heart, realising that it has no answer and hope anymore. 
Yes, hate that not trying, but knew that no matter how hard we try, where is the ending of trying it. 
Tried, but don't want to try anymore. 
Regret, rather it. 

在你出现之前,我不都是自己一个人的吗? 

Wednesday, 10 November 2010

我。






永远都觉得在提醒自己

Tuesday, 9 November 2010

真正的句点。

不同世界的两人,偶然机会下相遇,偶然机会下相爱,但不在偶然机会下分开。

体会了很想哭但哭不出来的感觉,是预料中吗?还是不可释疑的感觉?

我知道,我们两彼此的心情。
我知道,有多不好受。
我知道,我得到了,也甘愿了,不能了,就要放手了。

我,也要慢慢的开始过回没有你的日子。
你也一样吧?

原来,不同世界的两个人,
真的不容易。

虽然时间不长,
和感谢也很感激。

美好的回忆,
永远都会在我心里,
就让这个句号化成结局,
永远都封锁住没有人能代替的位子。

谢谢你。

Friday, 5 November 2010

There's nothing like this.

Royal Melbourne show on the 26.09.10.
Warm weather.

the queue

The Show Bag booth.

Enjoying strawberry with vanilla ice cream with choco topping.




Alpacas